Wow.
Well let’s just assume that you mean that in the nicest way possible. You are likely as frustrated as I was, but please don’t direct it at me.
I wasn’t bragging, I was communicating to the group that after a day of frustration, I was able to get it working because WYZE dropped an updated app. That’s all it took. (But man, it should be this hard!)
Here’s the forum news post:
https://forums.wyze.com/t/important-app-update-2-16-55-for-android-and-2-16-46-for-ios-1-16-21/156449
To answer your follow up questions:
Yes, I only updated the app (what else could I update?)
Now running v 2.16.48 on IOS
Not a beta, the regular release through the IOS App Store
Only used with my EERO mesh routers and my iPhone 11 Plus pro
I didn’t change anything on the router, although I may have had 5G disabled. I posted previously on this thread how to do that. But I’m not sure it was still disabled when I was able to make the aetup work with the new app.
Legitimate advice? How about, bite me 
!
What are you particulars as to app version and OS?
Dave